Question 1

Depression vs. Sadness: What’s the Difference?

Accepted Answer

Everyone has feelings of sadness from time to time. It’s a normal reaction to occurrences in life and can even be helpful in guiding our decision making. Sadness can help us process, but it is a passing emotion.

This is where depression differs, clinical depression is a serious illness, but it’s more common than you think. However, it can be hard to know if you’re “just” sad or if you’re suffering from a more serious depressive episode.

Let’s take a look at depression vs. sadness, the symptoms, and what you can do if you think you might suffer from clinical depression.

Question 2

What Is Clinical Depression?

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The word “depressed” is often colloquially used without thought to what it actually means or how it can devalue the clinical definition.

You might hear someone say “I’m so depressed!” after a breakup or a series of difficult life events. But without understanding the definition of depression, using the term “depression” to describe sadness undermines the severity of the condition.

Depression can range from a temporary episode of deep sadness lasting days or weeks to something more intense and severe. Clinical depression is far more than a feeling of deep sadness or mild depression. You might hear it called “major depressive disorder” or “major depression.”

Question 3

What Are Symptoms of Clinical Depression?

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It is a diagnosed illness based on criteria for major depressive disorder. These symptoms can include:

Regular feelings of guilt and/or worthlessness
Consistent loss of energy and fatigue or loss of energy
Not sleeping or sleeping too much
Lack of concentration
Significant and rapid weight gain or loss
Inability to make simple decisions
Lack of interest in activities you typically enjoy or other people
Repeated thoughts of death or suicide
Feeling physical pain without explanation
General feelings of restlessness
Angry outbursts over insignificant things
Most people feel a few of these symptoms from time to time. But when determining if it’s sadness vs. depression, consider the severity of the symptoms over time. If you feel some or most of these symptoms consistently over a long period of time, you might suffer from depression.

In the severest form of clinical depression, you or someone you know will experience noticeable problems in relationships and day-to-day activities. Work, school, friendships, social activities, and other aspects of daily life will suffer.

Depression sufferers lose jobs, leave people who love and care about them, and retreat from social interactions.

Question 4

What is the Difference Between Clinical Depression vs. Sadness?

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Now that we know some of the symptoms, how do we determine if someone suffers from clinical depression vs. sadness?

It’s important to observe behavior and take notice of one or more symptoms. If someone’s having a bad day, you’ll see them bounce back to their “normal” self on their own or after spending a little time with them.

With clinical depression, the bigger concern is the severity of the issues and an inability to bounce back without help.

When looking for signs of depression vs. sadness, here are some things to watch for and consider for yourself and others.
1. Length of Time
Length of Time - Signs of DepressionConsider this as another depression definition: a person experiencing five or more of the symptoms above for a period of at least two weeks.

If you’re feeling deep sadness, not eating, feeling worthless, not showing up to work, and not sleeping for several weeks or month, consider that you might suffer from depression.

Was there a trigger2. Was There a Trigger?
One crucial distinction between sadness vs. depression is a triggering event.

Someone experiencing sadness was likely triggered by something: a breakup, some bad news, a job situation, or anything that can cause hurt. However, sadness is temporary. When the event has passed, or the person has worked through the event, a sad person will move on and feel better.

With a depressive episode or ongoing depression, there is a lack of a trigger.

You wake up one day feeling deeply sad, and you can’t explain why. Your behavior changes from your “normal” self to someone experiencing signs of depression without a major life event to set it off.

Loss of Interest - Signs of Depression3. Loss of Interaction and Interest
One of the most significant indicators of depression is losing interest in things you love. This includes retreating from important people in your life for extended periods of time.

This condition, known as anhedonia includes symptoms like:

Dodging calls or interaction with close friends
Withdrawing from social activities
Having fewer emotional expressions (verbal and nonverbal)
Negative feelings about yourself and others
Showing fake or “expected” emotions
Lack of interest in physical intimacy
Frequent sickness or physical problems
If you notice someone you love experiencing these symptoms, make an effort to reach out. They could be suffering from more than a lack of interest in people and life activities.

Signs of Depression - Negative Thinking4. Negative Thinking
There’s the occasional joking around and self-deprecating humor. Everyone does this from time to time. Sometimes laughing at ourselves is a good form of therapy.

But if it’s a consistent part of most conversations and seems more serious than lighthearted, it could be a symptom of clinical depression.

You might hear things like:

“I don’t deserve that.”
“I shouldn’t be here.”
“I don’t want to be here anymore.”
“I’m such an idiot.”
“I’m so stupid.”
“I can’t get anything right.”
Or you might hear more severe things like:

“I just want to sleep forever.”
“I wish I were dead.”
“It should have been me.”
“It doesn’t matter if I’m here.”
“Nobody cares.”
These are critical thoughts that can lead to harm. Seek help if you experience these kinds of thoughts.

And listen for things like this from those around you. If you hear these statements consistently from someone, it could be a sign of deep depression.

Signs of Depression - Self-harm5. Thoughts of Self-Harm
If you think or hear any of the critical thoughts noted above, thoughts of self-harm could be in the mix too.

Thinking about harming yourself can lead to actually doing something harmful.

Whether it’s a self-calming activity like cutting or something more serious like thinking of suicide, these thoughts need immediate attention.

In the depths of an episode of clinical depression, it often feels like there’s no way out but to do something extreme.

Don’t give yourself or a friend time to follow-through on thoughts of self-harm. Find help right away.

Alcohol Abuse - Signs of Depression6. Alcohol or Drug Abuse
When suffering from depression, sometimes all you want to do is change what is affecting your mood. It’s common for depressed individuals to turn to drugs or alcohol to “feel better” or numb the pain they feel.

Take notice if a friend or loved one starts behavior that seems out of character with drinking binges or using drugs.

There is a link between depression and drug addiction. They are signs and symptoms of each other.

Because they are often intertwined, it’s important to treat both depression and addiction to heal and continue with a healthier life.

Question 5

What Contributes to Depression?

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We’ve taken a look at the symptoms of depression. But how does it happen? Who is at risk?

Question 6

Who Does Depression Target?

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While it impacts a small percentage of the population, depression is more common than you might think. In 2016, almost 16.2 million adults in the U.S. reported at least one episode of major depressive. That number doesn’t include teens or children.

The most reported age group for depression is adults ages 18-25. These are young adults debilitated by a serious illness at a time when they are trying to figure out who they are and life itself.

It’s important to provide help for depression sufferers at any stage of life. But we see it more commonly in the younger population with so much life left to live and enjoy. People with a history of depression in the family are also at high risk to suffer from major depression.

Certain segments of the population also seem more prone to depression than others. Reports of depression are higher with women than with men. But it’s important for other demographics to recognize what they are feeling and get help if needed.

Question 7

How Does it Happen?

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Depression can begin in several ways. Sometimes it’s a sudden life event or major trigger that causes clinical depression to surface.

Remember, with triggers and general sadness, a person will move on with traditional coping mechanisms. A good cry, a few days in bed, a good friend, and some ice cream helps you deal with a difficult time.

When an event triggers clinical depression, the person seems never to recover. Maybe it’s the loss of a loved one that causes you to spiral downward into drugs or alcohol abuse, losing sleep, and feeling worthless for weeks and months.

If it’s not a triggering event, depression feels like it’s always been there or happens gradually over time. Maybe you used to be happier, but now you or your friends notice you seem like a sad person all the time.

Even though clinical depression is a disease, there’s no one way to “get” depression. You might not be able to avoid it at all. But there is hope. When you’ve been accurately diagnosed with major depressive disorder, treatments are available from caring professionals who want to help make your life better.