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Home > Featured in Mental Health > Should You Be in a Relationship if You Have Mental Health Issues?

March 18, 2023 By Kristina Robb-Dover

Should You Be in a Relationship if You Have Mental Health Issues?

Should Mental Health Issues Affect Your Relationship?

Romantic relationships can be a lot—especially early on. Even when things are going well, both people have to figure out how to talk things through, make compromises and deal with disagreements without turning every little thing into a disaster. And if someone’s also managing a mental health condition, adding a new relationship into the mix can shake up routines that help them stay balanced. The right person can be a source of comfort, but relationships also come with their own kind of stress, which can make mental health struggles feel even heavier.

Plenty of people wonder if dating is even a good idea while working through mental health challenges. Conditions like bipolar disorder, social anxiety and depression can make relationships feel overwhelming. Some start questioning whether they’d be a good partner or if handling a relationship while also sorting out treatment and symptoms is even possible. 

There’s no universal answer here. Some people find that dating makes things harder, while others feel more stable with a supportive partner. A lot of people dating with mental illness end up in strong, lasting relationships where both partners help each other out. It’s not always easy, but for a lot of people, it’s absolutely possible—and honestly, worth it.

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Can Relationships Be An Emotional Burden?

Romantic relationships can be a lot to handle, especially for mental health. They can bring joy and comfort, but they also take real effort. It’s not just about dealing with personal stress—both people have to show up for each other, even when life gets messy.

Dating with a mental illness can feel like juggling too many things at once. Keeping up with symptoms and handling tough days while still showing up for a partner takes real effort. Sometimes, the energy it takes to maintain a relationship makes it harder to focus on personal recovery, which can leave someone feeling stretched too thin.

Do Relationships Improve Mental Health?

Strong relationships can make a real difference in mental health. According to one study, romantic relationships result in lower stress levels and faster emotional recoveries from stressful situations. Another study showed less activity in the part of the brain linked to anxiety. Relationships don’t take the place of professional care, but they can offer steady support along the way.

On the other hand, an unhealthy relationship can make things worse, especially for someone already struggling. A toxic environment can push stress levels through the roof and make depression or anxiety feel even heavier. Some people end up stuck in a constant fight-or-flight state, ignoring the habits and routines that help them stay stable.

Talking openly about boundaries, daily habits, and what kind of support actually helps can make a big difference. Keeping those conversations ongoing helps both partners understand what works and what doesn’t.

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How Do I Know If I’m Ready to Start Dating When in Mental Health Recovery?

While mental health recovery may not seem like the best time to begin a romantic relationship, it doesn’t necessarily need to be a roadblock. You can still begin a healthy relationship as you navigate the road to mental health recovery. However, your mental health should take priority as you begin the process of dating

Pace Yourself

Rushing into a serious relationship too soon can shake up mental health recovery and make setbacks more likely. Dating should feel manageable, not like another thing to stress over. Paying attention to how mental health plays into relationships makes it easier to tell whether it’s the right time to start something new.

Rather than searching for some perfect match, meeting new people, having fun and building confidence can make the whole experience feel lighter. Less pressure means fewer expectations on yourself and whoever you’re seeing, which makes it easier to stay focused on what actually matters: feeling stable and taking care of yourself.

Knowing When to Disclose Details about Mental Health

When you’re meeting new people and dating casually, there’s no reason to divulge information about your mental health. However, if you’ve met someone that you may want to pursue a long-term relationship with, you should be upfront about mental illness. In most cases, it’s best to talk about it early on rather than waiting until you’re in the middle of a mental health crisis.

Prioritizing Communication During Recovery

While you’re dating, your inclination is to put forth the best version of yourself. This may mean downplaying low moods, anxieties, and triggers. However, if your goal is to build a lasting relationship, open communication is a must. If you’re not ready to do this, then you may want to reevaluate whether you’re ready for a serious relationship.

Keeping Track of Changes in Mental Health

Dating with a mental illness can put you in various situations and environments that may trigger symptoms of your mental illness. While it’s not always possible or even healthy to completely avoid triggers, preparing for them can put you in a better position to cope. By being aware of the things that could affect your mood, you can more effectively prevent relapse.

Talk About Relationships and Mental Health with Your Therapist

Before you start dating, talk to your therapist about it, including your mental health and any potential relationships. They can help you assess your journey, how much progress you’ve made, and how much farther you need to go. They can also assist you in determining how to enter the dating world while continuing to prioritize your mental health.

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Should You End a Relationship for Your Mental Health?

Many people manage mental illness while staying in supportive relationships. But sometimes, staying in one does more harm than good. A relationship might not be the right place to be if a partner dismisses struggles, refuses to offer support, or pulls away during tough times. Feeling unheard or belittled can make symptoms worse and add stress that nobody needs.

At the same time, mental illness can cloud judgment. Depression, for instance, can make even a loving relationship feel overwhelming. Some might convince themselves their partner would be better off without them or mistake their own struggles for problems in the relationship. Those self-sabotaging thoughts don’t always reflect reality.

Leaving an unhealthy relationship can help, but walking away from a stable, loving one rarely improves mental health. Decisions made in the middle of a rough patch might not be the right ones. Before making a big move, it helps to take a step back, talk things through and see if the problem is the relationship or just a bad moment.

Seeking Help For Dating With Mental Health Issues

Romantic relationships provide intimacy and support and can have a positive impact on someone’s mental health recovery. While mental illnesses can be a barrier to dating and make it difficult to meet people, following your treatment plan can help you have the tools you need to build a healthy relationship.

For those who feel that their mental health is keeping them from enjoying a romantic relationship or sabotaging their relationship with their partner, help is available. At FHE Health, clients get individualized treatment for mental illnesses and find the support that can help them build happy and healthy relationships. To learn about our treatment programs, contact us today.

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