Growing up, I always heard about ‘what a man should be.’ My dad would talk about it, TV and movies would preach it, and other kids in school would talk about it. Generally, a man should be the strong, silent type who never complains and takes care of their own personal problems. This was an ideal that was widespread ... Read More
Alumni Outlook: 4 Ways for Men to Overcome Social Anxiety
The complicated thing about anxiety is that it’s not something we wear on our sleeves. I can only speak for myself, but when anxiety kicks into my life, there are not too many visible signs. Of course, it can be if I am dealing with something horrible. Mostly, I get quiet and sit pretty still when the anxiety kicks ... Read More
Alumni Outlook: Using Anxiety to your Advantage (5 Tips)
Living with anxiety is an exhausting ordeal. The constant fixation on what can happen next in life is something that can isolate you from enjoying anything you have in the present. The human mind is the most powerful thing in the world; if anxiety is a real issue for you, you know how delusional your anxiety can be if ... Read More
LOLZ: Laughter as a Healthy Coping Mechanism
There are not many things better in life than witnessing something so comical that it produces a guttural belly laugh. Why is it so great? Laughing naturally releases endorphins into your brain. Endorphins are the 'feel good' chemical that gets spread in our brains when we enjoy something. Think about eating that ... Read More
The Warning Signs of a “Clinger” in a Codependent Relationship
The goal of a romantic relationship is for there to be a sense of balance in the entire ordeal. Having a significant other in life more or less means you have decided to team up in this life and take it on together. Simple right? Yeah, not quite. As I have discussed before, intimate relationships are perhaps one ... Read More
Why Drinking to Cope with Work is the Ultimate Self-defeating Prophecy
In today’s society, a lot of people base their identity on their employment. What they do, their position, their salary, it’s what a lot of people base whether they are content or not in life. It’s an unfortunate truth but we live in a materialistic society here in the states. It’s safe to universally say that work, ... Read More
The Unexpected Perks of Living Alcohol Free
Many things are hard about recovery; I could write a list of 50 different angles on what makes recovery a tough thing to conquer. One of those top reasons would be that it takes time to reap the benefits truly. The phrase 'it takes time' is something those suffering from addiction do not sit well with. In general, ... Read More
5 Signs It’s Time to End a Relationship With an Alcoholic
Let's state the obvious right away, romantic relationships are complicated, very hard. It's a fantastic feeling to meet someone and have them mutually feel the same way as you do. I would even label a relationship's 'honeymoon phase' as a narcotic. You can get drunk on the feeling, and it's great! Love is a ... Read More
