How Achieving Work-Home Balance Improves Mental Health

How Achieving Work-Home Balance Improves Mental Health

Is it possible to balance work and family commitments? You’ve spent yet another day working late, missed your planned family dinner and may not be able to pick up your son from football practice.

You’re tired, and the last thing you wanted to see was more talk from your so-put-together-friend on social media about enjoying drinks with friends. Your day off is already committed to household tasks and perhaps five straight hours of sleep if you’re lucky. You’re stressed and ready to check out from everything.

It’s a common situation. Earning more, advancing a career and even building your own business are all factors that contribute to a culture of work-more. Work dominates our lives, and that in itself can lead to a high-stress level.

The Bureau of Labor Statistics’ 2018 American Time Use Survey found that 24% of employees who worked, on average, 8.5 hours a day did some of their work at home. Since 2009, the amount of time people spent performing work tasks has grown by 24%.

What Exactly Is the Balance of Work and Family?

The term “balance” can be misunderstood. Not everyone wants their home and work life to be equal components. For some, there’s a desire to spend most of their time and energy building their family and private life.

For others, career achievements are very important. There’s nothing wrong with either choice. What’s important is defining the right level of each that makes you happy.

If you made a list of everything you could do during a day, without any restrictions, what would be at the top of your list? What would you discard? Prioritizing your life based on your true desires and personal happiness is more valuable than trying to balance hours in the day for any one or two tasks.

Burnout: When Too Much Work Happens

What is job burnout?

Even with this open definition of balance, it’s still important to realize that burnout is a very real thing. When you’re under too much pressure, your brain releases too much of the stress hormone, cortisol. Over time, this alters your brain’s chemistry, changing the way you think, focus and live.

A constantly high cortisol level is dangerous. Your body can’t maintain this for a long time. Eventually, you may find yourself turning to other ways to cope with the stress.

  • You may turn to drugs that stimulate your brain to work harder.
  • You may reach out to alcohol to help you stop thinking about everything else for a few minutes.
  • You may engage in dangerous behavior just to get a high from life again.

When you reach a level of unbalanced, high-stress daily living, you put yourself at risk of a breakdown. People with mental health problems, even those that are undiagnosed, are at a high risk of experiencing emotional and mental failure. This can lead to episodes of dangerous depression and anxiety.

How to Assess Your Work and Home Balance

Finding Your BalanceWhen work or other tasks cut into your family and friend time, you can become mentally stressed. This is a clear sign that it’s time for you to reach out for some help. How do you know you’re at that point?

Start with a mental health day. Take a day off work to relax and do things you enjoy doing. Does this offer you enough relief? If you’re dreading heading back to work, consider further assessment.

  • Write down the things you haven’t done in the last few weeks that you wish you had.
  • Ask yourself honestly when was the last time you weren’t overwhelmed by work.
  • Be honest about whether you think you will ever catch up on your work so you can enjoy a better schedule.
  • Do you find yourself awake at night thinking about work?
  • Assess your quality of life today. Is it what you want it to be?

Many people who are already busy won’t take the time to work through an assessment like this. You can see how that’s a sign in itself of a problem.

Signs You Need to Find Better Balance

When is it time to change things? Whether you need to adjust your hours or simply just say “no” more often, there are several warning signs you shouldn’t ignore.

  • Your stress level is so high so often that it’s creating physical health problems for you.
  • Your work quality has slipped due to stress factors.
  • You hate your job or the people you work with and state that often.
  • You’ve suffered an anxiety attack or a bout of depression over your current situation.
  • You’re missing key components of your family life, and you want this to change.

Don’t wait until you have a physical ailment to take time off work. It’s important for you to work toward improving your situation right now.

Steps to Take to Restore Balance

Steps to take to restore balanceStay on top of your work-life balance by constantly working on it. This isn’t a simple change for many people. Start here:

  • Outline what your goals are. How much time do you want to spend at home and at work?
  • Write down actual tasks you want to have more time for each day and week.
  • Establish a routine that builds in time to help you achieve those goals.
  • Discuss your goals and reasons with your family. Ensure they’re supportive.
  • Recognize that no day is perfect, but each day, you can work to improve work-life balance.

Achieve Better Work-Life Balance for Mental Health

Take steps to restore balance at work too. That may mean reducing your workload. Discuss your needed changes with your employer.

While doing so, be sure they understand how these changes can help you be a better employee. You’ll be able to focus better and be more productive.

Reach out for professional help. If your stress is more than what you think is warranted, it’s okay to turn to a mental health professional to get some tools to help you. When you work with our therapists at FHE Health, we can help you understand how to manage your time and your life better to ensure you’ll find a better balance.

Do You Need More Real Help?

Sometimes stress can create mental health risks. If you’re in that place right now, call FHE Health right away. Our team of compassionate counselors is available to help you right now to find an improved quality of life with mental health balance. Call (844) 299-0618.

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