For many people, the holidays are a time of fun and family at the end of a long year. From giving thanks and enjoying a great meal at Thanksgiving to exchanging presents with friends and family members at Christmas or Hanukkah, there’s a lot to look forward to during the winter holiday season.
However, not everyone finds the holidays to be a holly, jolly time. For many, depression peaks in the winter months, when the weather worsens and family obligations accelerate. Around 4% to 6% of people have seasonal affective disorder, while an additional 10% to 20% have a milder form of seasonal depression. Further, at any given time, over 16 million Americans are living with major depressive disorder.
For many, surviving another holiday season is part of working through mental health struggles, but holiday depression isn’t necessarily benign or a symptom of the winter weather, and it may be a cause for concern. If your sadness during the holiday season leads to suicidal thoughts or tendencies, it is extremely important to get help.
Causes of Holiday Depression
Holiday depression can be attributed to numerous actions or occurrences throughout the holiday season. While the true reasoning is different for everyone and will vary based on past experiences, personal feelings, and life circumstances, there are some events that are more influential than others.
While by no means an exhaustive list, the following elements can often contribute to or worsen depression around the holiday season.
- Weather and time changes: When the average weather outside shifts from warm and sunny to cold and rainy or snowy, it’s not uncommon for moods to change. Further, the time change in the fall for Daylight Savings has clinical ties to SAD and depression.
- Increased alcohol use: Around the holidays, parties and social gatherings are more frequent, which can result in increased alcohol use. There is a strong correlation between alcohol use and depression, and while intoxication can feel temporarily beneficial, drinking heavily can be a downward spiral for those with mood and anxiety disorders.
- Overeating: Overeating is common around the holidays, with days like Thanksgiving glorifying eating large meals. However, for those struggling with body image, overeating can bring up negative feelings and compromise efforts to build self-esteem.
- Overspending: The holiday season often comes with increased expenses, like dinners out, parties, and pricey presents. For those on a tight budget, it’s not uncommon for expected expenses to lead to anxiety or depression.
- Lack of sleep: Over the holidays, social events escalate, leading to parties that last late into the night. And, while it’s common to take vacation time around the holidays, most Americans don’t have enough paid time off to take several weeks off at a time, leading to late nights and early mornings. Sleep, depression, and anxiety are all connected, and poor sleep can lead to worsening side effects.
- Prolonged time with family: Time with family isn’t always a good thing. For those with challenging relationships with parents, siblings, or children, are going through a divorce, or have just experienced loss, the holidays may bring up feelings of sadness and regret. For those dealing with depression, triggering these kinds of negative emotions can be deeply distressing.
- Lack of exercise: With busier schedules and colder temperatures, it’s not as easy to find time to stay healthy. When coupled with overeating and over-imbibing, there is a clear correlation with depressive feelings. While exercise isn’t a cure-all, it can have ameliorating effects on depression, so letting a routine lapse can around the holidays can have particularly negative consequences.
- No time for self-care: An increase in plans can mean less time for things like exercise, but it can also mean less time for self-care. For those who face depression, self-care can be critically important to promoting good mental health. Losing out of this time may not seem so important, but without adequate room to rest and recharge, the weight of the holidays can become crippling.
While one change to a routine can be a lot to handle, weeks or even months of changes can be devastating. With so many adjustments and social situations on the horizon, it’s not surprising that depression rates spike in the winter.
Staying Strong During the Holidays
If you’re worried about the upcoming holiday season, there are steps you can take to prepare yourself. While there’s no way to necessarily stop the hardships of the season, there are measures you can take to lessen the impact or improve your feelings on a day-to-day basis.
- Set realistic expectations to avoid disappointment in social situations
- Make a plan; never go into an event or outing with the intention of seeing where the night goes
- Set a time limit so that you do not get in over your head
- Abstain from alcohol or other mind-altering substances
- Don’t be afraid to say no; if a day has too many appointments already or you’re unsure about spending time with those inviting you over, it’s okay to decline
- Create a budget and stick to it to avoid putting yourself in holiday debt
- Get plenty of sleep
- Schedule time with loved ones and members of your emotional support system
When to Get Help
Living with depression isn’t easy, and it can be even harder when you’re facing challenging emotional and mental situations throughout the holiday season. If you experience any of the following, your holiday depression may be a cause for concern:
- Generally feelings of depression or sadness
- Loss of interest in once-pleasurable activities
- Extreme weight gain or weight loss
- Apathy and disinterest in getting out of bed
- Lack of energy or extreme fatigue
- Feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, or inadequacy
- Trouble concentrating or making decisions
- Consistent, ongoing thoughts of death or suicide
If you’re suffering instead of celebrating, help is here for you. The Florida House Experience can provide care and support for those facing depression, both during the holidays and throughout the rest of the year. Through the use of biometrics, including brain imaging and genetic blood testing, we are able to get to the root of your depression and create a customized treatment plan to help you feel your very best.
If your sad or forlorn feelings seem worse than usual, or are putting you in a dark place, getting help is absolutely critical. Please contact (866) 421-6242 to learn more about how the Florida House Experience can help you find a healthy, happy approach to life.